Chapter 10 - More by Deeds Than by Words: Friendship & Love

The Jesuit way of life emphasizes an underappreciated
part of the spiritual life: friendship. How have your
friends been blessings in your life, and how have they
moved you closer to God?
 
• Ignatius’s “Presupposition” (pp. 234–236) means giving
people the benefit of the doubt. When have you found
that approach rewarding?
 
• “One of the best gifts to give a friend is freedom,” writes
Fr. Martin (p. 243). What does that mean for you?
Where might you be called to give your friends more
freedom?
 
• Consider “Some Barriers to Healthy Friendship”
(pp. 246–248) and “Healthy Friendships” (pp. 259–263).
Have these recommendations shed light on any of your
relationships?